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For Life Skills and a More Peaceful World: A Negotiation-Based Approach to Conflict Resolution with Preschoolers

Posted on October 1, 2018 by Amber

Someone directly solicited my input on the following conflict between children. This is from a Facebook post from someone else,… Read more For Life Skills and a More Peaceful World: A Negotiation-Based Approach to Conflict Resolution with Preschoolers

Don’t Fall Prey to List Bossiness! Harness the Power of Lists

Posted on September 20, 2018 by Amber

You know what bosses people around? Lists. This is why for instance a parent or teacher absolutely insists that a… Read more Don’t Fall Prey to List Bossiness! Harness the Power of Lists

Anticipate a Child’s Needs to Reduce Whining (and More Fully Love Them!)

Posted on September 19, 2018 by Amber

Something that helped me when my child got especially whiny was to anticipate her needs. As a caregiver, I am… Read more Anticipate a Child’s Needs to Reduce Whining (and More Fully Love Them!)

Play Candyland with Your 4 Year Old at Your Own Risk: On Games with Young Children

Posted on September 18, 2018 by Amber

I read something about letting children lose at games that I strongly fundamentally disagree with, “One parent was aghast at… Read more Play Candyland with Your 4 Year Old at Your Own Risk: On Games with Young Children

9/10/18: A Day in the Life of a Homeschooler

Posted on September 11, 2018 by Amber

9/10/2018 I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how I can get more organized. I want to put together a… Read more 9/10/18: A Day in the Life of a Homeschooler

For the Child Who Loves to Race and is Defiant, Counting to 3 and Other Yardsticks May Help

Posted on September 3, 2018September 19, 2018 by Amber

Preschool Milestone 13, 3 years, 10 months-ish, brings with it a child who loves to race, be first, and absolutely… Read more For the Child Who Loves to Race and is Defiant, Counting to 3 and Other Yardsticks May Help

Better Than a Spa Day: A Mindful Week

Posted on September 2, 2018September 2, 2018 by Amber

To be the parent you want to be, you have to have some clarity of mind. Most of us don’t… Read more Better Than a Spa Day: A Mindful Week

Children Do Not “Need” Boundaries

Posted on September 2, 2018 by Amber

Perhaps the most radical way that my parenting approach differs from others is that I do not think children “need”… Read more Children Do Not “Need” Boundaries

Let’s Talk to Each Other about Children’s Misbehavior

Posted on August 29, 2018 by Amber

When I first became a mom, my neighbor across the street also had just become a mom. Our boys were… Read more Let’s Talk to Each Other about Children’s Misbehavior

When Caregivers Just Don’t Understand

Posted on August 27, 2018 by Amber

I document age-related childhood difficult behavior and probably the #1 question I get is how to deal with caregivers who… Read more When Caregivers Just Don’t Understand

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