When I first became a mom, my neighbor across the street also had just become a mom. Our boys were… Read more Let’s Talk to Each Other about Children’s Misbehavior
Month: August 2018
When Caregivers Just Don’t Understand
I document age-related childhood difficult behavior and probably the #1 question I get is how to deal with caregivers who… Read more When Caregivers Just Don’t Understand
When You Can’t Communicate with Your Preschooler
Around 3 years, 10 months, I had so many communication issues with my preschooler. She kept saying “That one! That… Read more When You Can’t Communicate with Your Preschooler
Staying Patient by Eliminating Any Propensity for Anger
Patience. It’s the #1 thing parents say they struggle with. Most books, including my own, focus on helping people stay… Read more Staying Patient by Eliminating Any Propensity for Anger
Sometimes Children Need Rescued: Know When to Rescue and When to Challenge
Responsibility. That’s what adults are supposed to teach children, right? Our goal is to socialize them into independent adults? I’m… Read more Sometimes Children Need Rescued: Know When to Rescue and When to Challenge
“Would You Rather?” Questions May Help During Meltdowns
“Would you rather?” questions are fun with children just as fun. They are questions like, “Would you rather live on… Read more “Would You Rather?” Questions May Help During Meltdowns
When Children Whine: Be Like a Firefighter on a Mission to Heal Their Emotions
I was really struggling with my 3 year old daughter’s whining. I made it through her toddler years; I did.… Read more When Children Whine: Be Like a Firefighter on a Mission to Heal Their Emotions
The Shortest Explanation Possible of How to Deal with Children Without Using Punishment
A friend asked me once to put together a very short, one-page explanation, with tools, to explain to people how… Read more The Shortest Explanation Possible of How to Deal with Children Without Using Punishment
Redirection is an Effective, Hands-On Way to Say “No” Without Saying “No”
When you don’t want a young child to do something, redirection is an effective way to get them to stop… Read more Redirection is an Effective, Hands-On Way to Say “No” Without Saying “No”
3-1/2 Year Olds: They Are a Meltdowny Mess and Love Science Experiments
I have been doing work, done in a community of parents, to characterize the typical age-related behaviors of children. I… Read more 3-1/2 Year Olds: They Are a Meltdowny Mess and Love Science Experiments